Empatisch, warm, stevig, humoristisch en vooral heel praktisch en doelgericht

If we start working together, we act as a team. Only then can we follow the best tactics and reach the optimal results for you. Within such a team you must be able to blindly find each other, and feel how the other party is competing in the match. I myself developed that sixth sense during my own career as a supervisor with the company I worked for. Closely I experienced what fierce changes you sometimes may experience as an employee and as a human being. I have experienced that people keep stretching their boundaries to achieve certain goals and status – and that those goals then often become further away than ever. But you can’t keep going on getting yourself overloaded and put under pressure. There must be a balance, in yourself, in your job, in your surroundings and in your life.

Ik begrijp de organisaties, maar ook de mens die met een hulpvraag komt

I myself have learned to take my responsibility and to take a different path. To make a career and pursuing status: It didn’t make me feel better, but it did cost a lot of energy. That was the moment to change course and to choose an education as a therapist. Finding how and why we have (unconscious) patterns and how they occur. Because how can you work with another person’s fears, trauma’s and restrictions if you do not know your own?

Years of study and experience have taught me to trust my senses more, to let go of my ratio and to listen to my body. It seems normal, but many of us no longer do so, while from doing that we can get a lot of energy. I now live by my instinct, my heart and am fully aware of my fears and patterns. They won’t disappear, but I have learned to live with them, so they won’t restrain me. And that is my wish for everyone!